Because they are highly empathetic, they need to know that the people around them are relaxed in order for them to be able to relax. Nines need simplicity, peace, harmony and to be appreciated. This is nearly always a mistake-one that they are happy to let others make because they prefer not to flaunt their talents or appear egotistical.
Others may underestimate them due to their casual and nonchalant attitude.
Not one to self-promote, they would rather be discovered than announce themselves. When they do make a decision, they are like an unstoppable elephant pursuing its goals. They tend to procrastinate and take longer than others to make up their mind. Nines see themselves as having stamina and take pride in their ability to endure. Often the strong, silent type, Nines have the power of patience, persistence and resistance. At times, they may be complacent and minimize anything that is upsetting. Nines may struggle to find their one true passion. Because Nines may lose themselves in life’s simple pleasures, the needs of others, or the basic task of living, they may never go after what they truly want. Self-forgetting by nature, they repress their anger and neglect their needs in order to avoid the discomfort that comes with conflict. Nines don’t want to be drawn into conflict and avoid being pressured to react. Focusing on similarities rather than differences, they make an excellent mediator and peacemaker. Nines are able to see all the shades of gray in any given situation and have a way of diffusing conflict and being calm and steady in a crisis. More intellectual than they let on, they have a natural gift for seeing many different points of view. Focused on the well-being of others, they may at times lose sight of their own agenda. Nines are very accepting and readily empathize with others. Considerate and gentle, they have an innate ability to make people feel comfortable and at ease. Their idealized self-image is that they are content and harmonious.ĭesiring union, harmony and unconditional love, Nines get along with most people that they meet. Nines would like others to see them as humble, easygoing and approachable. Nines see themselves as accepting, unassuming and laid-back. More importantly, they want to be calm, and if at all possible, to avoid conflict.
Nines want to be agreeable, peaceful, natural and comfortable.
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